The problem with reading psychology books is the more you do, the more you realise what an unreconstructed ape you really are. And I’m really talking about me when I say you. We can’t remember worth a damn, judge statistics worth a damn, argue logically worth a damn, or pretty much do anything very well beyond picking virtual fleas off the alpha male, apparently. And by we I mean me.
Anyway, the point is this: Read You are not so Smart by David McRaney. It’s really good. No link, because Our Man doesn’t do affiliate links, or missing ones. But follow your instincts, you’ll know where to go.